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Dad accused of drowning daughter in ‘honour killing’ was a ‘terror to his family’

2025-12-02 07:24
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Dad accused of drowning daughter in ‘honour killing’ was a ‘terror to his family’

The body of Ryan Al Najjar was found gagged, with her hands bound behind her back and ankles taped together, in the city of Lelystad in the Netherlands, last May.

Dad accused of drowning daughter in ‘honour killing’ was a ‘terror to his family’ Luke Alsford Luke Alsford Published December 2, 2025 7:24am Updated December 2, 2025 7:24am Share this article via whatsappShare this article via xCopy the link to this article.Link is copiedShare this article via facebook Comment now Comments Ryan Al Najjar Ryan Al Najjar’s killing has officially been designated an honour crime (Picture: Politie NL)

Two brothers accused of drowning their sister in a swamp in an ‘honour killing’ have blamed their runaway father for her murder.

The body of Ryan Al Najjar was found gagged, with her hands bound behind her back and ankles taped together, in the city of Lelystad in the Netherlands, last May.

The 18-year-old was killed after a TikTok live video of her without a headscarf and wearing makeup embarrassed her traditional family because it was outside their traditional views, the court heard.

Her brothers, Mohamed, 23, and Muhanad Al Najjar, 25, are now on trial for her murder, while her father, Khaled Al Najjar, will be tried in absentia after fleeing to Syria. 

Mandatory Credit: Photo by Hollandse Hoogte/Shutterstock (15950789b) LELYSTAD - Courtroom sketch of suspects Mohammed Al N. (R) and Muhanad Al N. during the substantive hearing in court. The two brothers and their father, Khaled Al N., are suspected of murdering their sister and daughter, Ryan Al Najjar, from Joure. Court Drawing: Brothers and Father Suspected of Murdering Ryan Al Najjar From Joure - 27 Nov 2025 Suspects Mohammed Al N. (R) and Muhanad Al N. during the substantive hearing in court (Picture: Hollandse Hoogte/Shutterstock)

DNA belonging to Khaled was found under Ryan’s fingernails but prosecutors say they cannot determine whether the dad, one of her brothers, or both of them were behind the killing.

Mohamed and Muhanad were arrested soon after her body was found. They deny killing their sister and say their father acted alone.

The brother’s lawyers told the court on Monday they were not involved in their sister’s death and could not have known their father intended to kill her.

Johan Mühren, representing Muhanad, said the father ‘was a terror to his family, but no one dared to stand up to him.’

He added: ‘He is a grumpy, angry, and authoritarian man who tolerated no dissent.

‘Anyone who did so faced abuse and death threats.’

The lawyer said it was ‘incredibly unjust and unfair’ that while the brothers face long prison sentences the ‘main perpetrator is still at large in Syria.’

Mühren insisted that Muhanad would ‘never have ended up in the dock without the role played by his father.’

Khaled allegedly sent two emails to Dutch newspaper De Telegraaf, confessing to her murder and saying that his sons were not involved.

Ryan al Najjar On May 28, the body of 18-year-old Ryan al Najjar from Joure was found in a body of water on Knardijk in Lelystad. She was found to have died as a result of a crime. The woman was reportedly brought to Lelystad on the evening of Monday, May 27. Police are seeking witnesses and any footage. The investigation revealed that Ryan al Najjar had been in Rotterdam in the days leading up to May 28th and that she was taken to Lelystad in a dark-colored Saab station wagon. Several people were in this car, in addition to the victim. It has also become clear that the car drove along the Oostvaardersdijk N701 and passed the De Kuifeend viewpoint. The police would like to hear from anyone who saw the Saab in the Oostvaardersdijk-Knardijk-Buizerdweg area on Monday evening, May 27th, at 10:00 PM, and on May 28th at 2:00 AM. Images of the car and its occupants are also welcome. https://www.politie.nl/gezocht/opsporingsbericht/2024/juni/03-overleden-vrouw-aangetroffen---knardijk---lelystad Ryan was in a TikTok live video with a headscarf before her death, prosecutors say

But prosecutors dispute that version of events. They claim that he enlisted his sons to pick Ryan up, drive her to a remote location, and throw her body into the water.

However Mühren said that the brothers showed no intention of harming their sister and that Muhanad did not accompany his father and Ryan to the place she was killed.

The court also heard there was also no evidence he took part in smothering, strangling or drowning her.

During the trip, Khaled was said to have issued repeatedly brutal orders – telling them to find a deep lake, ‘ditch Ryan,’ and ‘weigh her down by the legs’ so ‘the fish eat her’.

But Mühren said the brothers ignored the instructions and did not try to execute the plan. 

The Public Prosecution Service in the Netherlands has formally designated the teenager’s murder as honour-based violence, stating that Khaled ordered for her to be killed because she ‘brought shame to the family’ by behaving too ‘Western’.

Prosecutors revealed that this behaviour allegedly included mixing with boys, refusing to wear a headscarf and using social media.

This was said to have culminated in a live TikTok video where she was without a headscarf and wearing makeup.

Prosecutors said chat messages indicate the video embarrassed Ryan’s family as it did not fit within their traditional views.

The teenager disappeared on May 22, 2024, with her body beig discovered by a passerby on May 28 in Lelystad, 25 miles north-east of Amsterdam.

Prosecutors argue Khaled ordered his sons to collect Ryan, driver her to an isolated location and meet him there.

Ryan was killed shortly after midnight, with prosecutors arguing Mohamed and Muhanad knew she would die.

But Mühren says Muhanad picked up his sister in Rotterdam ‘to take her home. He told her to apologize to her father. Then everything would be okay.’

Forensic investigations confirmed all three suspects were present at the scene, although it is unclear who performed specific acts.

Prosecutors said: ‘Khaled was the driving force, but without his sons, Ryan would not have been there at all.’

The prosecution service was 20 year sentences for the brothers and a 25-year sentence for Khaled.

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Attorney Ersen Albayrak insisted in court there was no premeditated plan from the father to kill his daughter.

He said instead that he acted impulsively rather, adding: ‘He was calm when he saw her, but lost his composure because of things Ryan said.’

The court will issue its verdict on January 5.

According to the Dutch current-affairs programme Nieuwsuur, Khaled is believed to be living in northern Syria and has remarried since the killing.

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